Modest really is hottest.

I used to be that girl. The one who dresses modestly at church, but immodestly almost everywhere else. I had heard that phrase "modest it hottest" countless times in my upbringing, but had allowed myself to believe that modesty really wasn't hottest. I was living a double standard, and I thought I had more freedom because I wasn't "limited" to only modest items or "forced" to layer clothing...but I found that my choice caused the people around me to not take me seriously. And it took me a while to realize it, but when I did, it hurt. Not only that, but the people that I spent my time with who were encouraging my immodesty were not lifting me up. And then I realized that *duh* I could change all that!

I remember back to a few days before I was supposed to receive my Endowments and I had this moment of panic when I realized I had to buy almost an entire new wardrobe to be in harmony with the covenants I would be making. That was a real eye opener for me. All of a sudden I wished I had listened to my Mother when she told me that I should be modest. And going through the temple wasn't the only reason I felt like modesty was important. How you dress yourself sends a message, not only to those around you, but to God! (Imagine my embarrassment when I figured that one out)

Through research and a whole lot of friends, I found that it was possible to be modest and  look attractive. I also found that there are whole websites devoted to modest and customizable clothing. (Hellooooo Eshakti.com/my fave clothing site on the PLANET!!!) Not to mention countless modest fashion blogs that are accessible via the Pinterest. You guys: the internet is like the mecca for modest clothing options and outfit ideas. It is so doable!

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 I feel like modesty is the most underrated thing out there. It takes more effort, but you know what? It's so worth it. 

Also: I've been wanting to do a OOTD (outfit of the day) segment...thoughts?

XOXO,